And another thing: Women choosing to be "single" usually means they are single but still hooking up with guys. Maybe boy toys. Frankly, most men just want to be boy toys; they don't want responsibilities. So, why is being a single women or a boy toy such a tragic thing? Being a boy toy doesn't require any of the personal growth this article bemoans men lacking. At this point, the problem becomes that modern societies already don't have enough children. Settling for single women & boy toys will only exacerbate this problem.