I have an ethnic Asian friend coworker in the USA. He's not religious. He can't find any girls of his own ethnicity, or anyone, because most of the girls of this own ethnicity want their dates to be Christian. But he doesn't want to be Christian. Frankly, I do not sympathize with a lot of guys who can't find dates in America. If you are a fit guy with a decent job (the trades like electricians, plumbers, etc. are very respectable, pay well, and are in high demand everywhere), and you are Christian, you're going to find a good wife.