I want to be a man and husband who enables my wife to avoid all the injustices you point out. Unfortunately, you've got American women's biological choices going against you: No modern society has enough children to replace itself; we all face birthrates below the average of 2.1 children per women just to keep a society from shrinking. So, the solution, if you're reading this, is that if you're a woman who's found a decent man, have as many children with him as you can. Ideally way above the 2.1 replacement rate. https://medium.com/non-violence/progressives-liberals-you-have-only-two-choices-for-your-future-islamic-state-or-israeli-style-08e97c4d414d