She clearly also does not have children who could help care for her. That's her decision she made in life. Even if she's infertile, she could have been fostering, or adopting, and if too poor to do those, she could have built relationships enough to be a godmother to another people's kids. Those are the most sympathetic scenarios. Too many women it seems to me are unwilling to date nerds; true, nerds are typically not all that good-looking, but if there were a dating site with women waiting to date nerds just as soon as they've started working out a bit and taking care of themselves, it would probably do a lot of good